Every human being on this planet goes to traumatic experiences.  It could be lost loved ones, unexpected unemployment, broken marriage, or finding out you or someone you care about is terminally sick.  The list could go on about what we face in this life.  But one thing is certain, especially for guys.  We should never leave a man behind.  Galations 6:2 talks about carrying each other’s burdens:
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Galations 6:2.
We need to carry each other when we are wounded.  We may not know why bad experiences happen to us; God knows that.  But He does not leave us, nor forsake us, and He definitely does not leave us to figure life out for ourselves.  Build relationships with other Godly men, and watch how God transforms your life.
Always be on your guard and prepare to fight!